Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Logan - December 2011

Well buddy, once again I'm writing you your last letter before we add another member to this family.  So far you seem pretty excited, and I just hope that will still be the case when I am writing your letter next month.  The other day I was talking to you and Tess about how I needed you guys to help me out with the new baby and do things like bring me diapers and wipes and check on him when he is in the car and make sure he has his binky, etc.  Every time I have brought it up since then you and Tess have argued about who is going to do what.  What a change from when Tessa was born.  I remember begging you to peek in on her to see if she was sleeping or breathing or doing okay when you were in the car and you wouldn't even look at her!


For Thanksgiving this year we went to Grandma Lori and Grandpa Rob's.  You had fun playing with Quade and Bosten, but I'm pretty sure you didn't eat a thing on your plate when it was time for dinner!  The next day we went out and found our Christmas tree and actually got the best looking one we've had in years.  The next day we got to go to Hurricane while dad helped Grandpa build a fence and I did some Christmas shopping.  You and Tess hung out with Grandma Hillier that day, so I'm pretty sure those 3 days with your grandparents were the highlight of the month for you guys.

Your dad started his winter break in November this year, and the first week he was off he decided to take you coyote hunting.  We weren't sure how you would do since it would be early and cold and you'd have to be somewhat quiet, but you weren't out for very long before I got a picture message on my phone with you and your first coyote.  I was pretty jealous so I went out with your dad after Thanksgiving and wasn't as lucky as you, and come to think of it, I don't think dad's gotten once since that day either!  You must be a good luck charm.  After your dad shot the coyote it was still alive so he got closer to finish him off and missed a few times at close range.  This is my favorite part of how you tell the story because you are so excited about how dad shot the coyote and then you go on to say, "And then he shot at it and missed, and he shot at it again and miss, and then he shot at it again and missed AGAIN!"


Dad was able to go back to Texas again at the beginning of December, so I knew I had better try to plan some fun things to do to keep us from going crazy now that it has been too cold to go to the park.  One thing I am going to try to do with you guys every year is make Christmas ornaments.  These were some apple cinnamon ornaments we made and then decorated.  You guys had a lot of fun and I just cringed and kept my mouth shut while the glitter went flying!


And of course you guys jumped at the chance to break out the Santa hats and play Santa. That is probably one of your favorite things to do all month is bring me things stuffed in your Santa hat and have me open my present.  I'm not so sure why your shirt is tucked into your underwear, but those Grinch socks only come off after a lot of discussion about how you can't wear the same socks two days in a row!

Earlier this month you had woken up around 5:30 a.m. and went into the bathroom to pee.  Your dad was out on the couch because I was in our room working on the computer, when all of a sudden we heard a horrible scream coming from the bathroom.  I went running and by the time I got down the hall to where you were I could hear your dad laughing pretty hard.  I thought for sure he had heard you go into the bathroom and decided to scare you, but it turned out instead you saw a mouse!  Even though we have caught the culprit and you watched him get flushed down the toilet I'm pretty sure you are forever scarred by that event that morning. You are always hearing things and asking me what certain noises are and asking me to come to the bathroom with you.  You even have Tessa go with you sometimes!  It doesn't matter how many times I reassure you that we have gotten them all and that they are more afraid of you than you are of them.  I really hope we HAVE gotten all the mice in this house because I'm not sure what I am going to tell you if it happens again!

The other day I was reading one of my favorite blogs, and she was talking about her boy who started kindergarten this year and it reminded me a little of you.  She said, "I swear, this is such a weird age.  I love it, but it is just so strange.  He's half teenager, half toddler.  He is so big, but so small (so smart, so dumb).  He's got one foot out there in the big scary world - and the other is still clad in a pair of feetie pajamas."  That pretty much hits it right on the head.  Sometimes the things you say and the way you say things make me wonder how old that soul of yours is, and other times you come out dressed wearing a Santa hat, Grinch socks, and red shirt tucked into a pair of shorts in December!  There have been rumblings here and there of some girls at school taking quite a liking to you too.  Already?  It makes us laugh now, but I feel like the girl/teenager/real world thing is coming at me at warp speed.  I don't want to stop you from growing up because it is SO much fun to watch you tackle these new things in Logan style, but let's at least keep the girls away for a few years!

Be good to your new little brother buddy, and please be patient with me while I try to figure out life with another person in the picture.  I remember the transition last time was less than stellar, but you weren't quite old enough to remember much of it (thankfully!).  This time I have a better idea of what to expect, but you also are more aware of what is going on.  I hope those two things work for me instead of against me.  You have such a heart of gold though that I know whatever mistakes I do make you will (most likely) forgive me for.  Thanks for that buddy.  I know that you and that great personality came first in this family for a reason.  Keep that heart of gold.  I absolutely love to watch you with other kids when you let that trait shine, and I know it will be one of your best assets in your life if you stick with it.

Love you bud,
Mom

One from last month when you and Tessa played in the "snow."

Friday, December 2, 2011

Tessa - December 2011

Well missy, we've had more than one big milestone with you in the last couple months, and as embarrassed as you may be by this one, I can't believe I didn't write about it last month!  For some reason I decided to potty train Logan, and it was no different with you.  I'm not quite sure why I do that to myself, but you were actually quite easy!  Everyone told me with Logan to wait until he was ready, and of course I didn't.  I wanted him to be ready because you were born and I didn't want to change 2 bums.  Well that didn't go so well, but when he decided he was ready it was really easy.  So with you I waited and waited and waited (even though the little potty has been in your bathroom since last spring) and finally decided I'd just give it a shot and see how it went.  Well, it went!  You did pretty well and had a few accidents here and there, but you were completely day and night potty trained in no time!  It is no fun for the first few weeks, and we've made our fair share of runs to the bathroom in the grocery store, park, and library, but you were nice enough to give me about 3 months without having to change diapers.

I also love that you call the toilet "the pot."  I'm not sure where you picked it up, but it's funny.  "Mom, you need to help me sit on the POT!" or, (and your cousin is going to love me for this, sorry Bost!), "Mom, Bosten says he is scared to sit on the pot."  It's pretty cute.

We also decided it was time to move you out of the crib and into a big girl bed.  We were worried how you'd do since you LOVE to curl up in the corner of your crib in your stink bug pose, but once again you've done fine.  You haven't once fallen out, although the other night when I went to check on you it looked like you had crawled out of your bed and fallen asleep on the floor - go figure.  You and Logan continue to make some of these parenting things too easy for me, but I'm not complaining!

Your first night in your new bed...

Your dad's truck was in the shop for a couple days, so we had to take him to work one day when it was snowy weather.  Well you guys would NOT let me keep you inside after we got home, so inside we went to bundle you up, then back outside you 2 went to play in it.  There was only about half an inch to play in and it was gone about 20 minutes after I made you come inside, but you had fun while you could!  I'm actually excited for a little bit of snow this year so I can send you both out in it again and make a snowman that is bigger than 6 inches!

We moved you and your big girl bed into what was my old office and moved the computer into me and dad's room after my computer and the internet connection decided not to get along so well.  The other morning I heard you coming through the kitchen  after waking up so I turned to say good morning and then about fell off my chair laughing when you appeared in the doorway with this hair...

It was so much better in person too!  Then another day I let you have chocolate milk and toast for breakfast and was surprised to see this when you were done...

I'm not quite sure how you ended up with a huge smear of chocolate on your face, but I can assure you that we get plenty of laughs at your expense in the morning.  I'm so glad you are still at a stage where most of the time you will laugh with us instead of getting mad.

Speaking of laughing at your expense, the other day your dad and I were giving you a hard time about something and your dad said to you, "Tess, you are a genius." to which you replied, "No I'm NOT!"  You may not have proven it right at that moment, but you sure are a smart girl most of the time.

I'm so excited for Christmas this year and hoping that you get into it more this year than last.  Once again I've kind of taken advantage of how easily persuaded you are and convinced you that you want a crib for your babies for Christmas.  I really do think you will like it though, and I'm hoping that you will be content to take care of your babies while I am taking care of your new brother.  I keep telling you that you are going to be my helper when he comes, so hopefully that is getting planted in your head too.  I am nervous about him coming though since it was quite a bit transition for me and Logan when you arrived.  Luckily I ask Logan about that now and he doesn't seem to remember too many details, so I'm hoping that if we have a rocky start with 3 that you won't remember that part of it.  As long as he survives the two of you I think we will all eventually find our places again without too much of a problem.

You are such a fun little turkey, and I am glad you are the middle child.  I don't think I will ever have to worry about you not getting enough attention because you are pretty good at making sure we know you are here...


Keep being the sweet girl you are, but maybe ease up a little bit on your dad.  He's going to need a daddy's girl here in a few weeks when he is feeling neglected by mom too.

Love you Big Sis,
Mom